Good day fine reader, nice to welcome you here to a new college of Dutch Designers Outlet her Lingerie and Swimwear expert. In this blog, we will discuss a topic that can provoke both curiosity and laughter. Why do men find lingerie sexy? That's the question we're going to dwell on. But more importantly, how can you as a woman take advantage of it?
It's about you, not him
Let me get right to the point. When you feel sexy in lingerie, you radiate that. So it's actually not about him at all. Men find lingerie attractive because it makes you feel confident. That's what really gets them noticed. It's like a secret weapon that you only deploy when you feel good in it.
Why men see lingerie as 'sexy'
For many men, lingerie has something exciting about it. It accentuates your curves and leaves just enough to the imagination. This has nothing to do with vulgarity, but with a psychological game. It is in our nature to be attracted to what is mysterious. With lingerie, you play on this tactically with beautiful fabrics, lace and subtle details.
Men aren't as critical as you think
Ready for a surprising twist? Most men are not concerned with the sophisticated details. Often men only see that you have put on something special. Not whether it's a simple black lingerie set or one with red lace. The "something extra" is enough to grab his attention. So no, that asymmetrical hem that bothers you, he probably won't even see it.
Your comfort is sexy
Be careful not to wedge yourself into a set that pinches everything off. You're not meant to feel like a troll in butcher's string. You're not doing yourself - or him - any favors here. Well-fitting lingerie is the secret to success. Choose a set that compliments your body and that you feel comfortable in. So take the time to properly measure your measurements. My blog"The importance of calculating the right bra size" will help you with that.
Choosing the right set for your body type
Not every bra fits every figure, and that's totally okay. Fortunately, there are so many styles to choose from. From low cup bras to push-ups and from bralettes to full-coverage models. With the help of my blog"Which Bra Fits You," you'll discover which one is the best one to choose. If necessary, buy different types of bras so you can experiment.
Sexy or vulgar?
Sexy is not vulgar. Where the line between the two lies is up to you and your partner to determine. Sexy is not about as little fabric as possible. An elegant lace body, a beautiful balconette bra or even a high-necked bustier can be just as seductive. It's about what you exude, not how much you show. Of course, you can tailor your choice of lingerie to his preferences and tastes. As long as you can wear it with confidence.
What men really see
Men are visually oriented, that's true. But what they really notice is how you present yourself. Are you confident, do you feel beautiful? Then they see that immediately. That one expensive designer set or that bargain from the outlet? It makes little difference to him. By the way, research shows that men are more likely to fall for a confident look than for a certain type of lingerie. Even subtle gestures, like how you enter the room or a slight smile, make a huge impression. It's all about the overall presentation, not just the lingerie you wear.
The power of color in lingerie
Colors tell a story and evoke emotions, including in lingerie. Red is the color of passion. Black exudes elegance and mystery. Sexy white lingerie, in turn, can give a pure and romantic feeling. Choose a color that enhances your personality. In which you find yourself beautiful! A fashion color of the season also does well. The summer or winter mood then becomes part of the seductive game.
What if you receive "sexy" lingerie as a gift?
It's Valentine's Day and your partner gives you a gift. A sexy Valentine's Day lingerie set from him for you. How sweet! But maybe he gives you a thong when you never wear it. Or the style of lingerie isn't quite your taste. Remember, he means well. A subtle response honestly stating what you like can help you understand each other better. In the end, it's all about intention - and that was sweet.
The magic of Christmas begins with your underwear
Women like to doll up at Christmas. That's a fact there's nothing wrong with that. Your finest dress hangs ready and the patent leather shoes shine. But don't forget that the magic of Christmas starts with what you wear under that glamorous outfit. Sexy Christmas lingerie adds just that touch of luxury and seduction to the holiday season. We have a beautiful collection of Christmas lingerie in which you will undoubtedly find a suitable set. But first, read my blog"The magic of Christmas lingerie" for some practical tips.
Surprise him, but especially yourself
The fun of lingerie is in the experimentation. Try a new fabric, color or style. Do it not just to surprise him, but mostly to boost yourself. That self-assurance works like a magnet! Besides, your new sexy lingerie doesn't have to end up in the closet afterwards. After all, you get to feel sexy every day, so it's nice to have comfortable lingerie in the house.
Put on what makes you happy!
The moral of the story? You are the person who comes first. Once you feel good in your lingerie, he will feel the same way. Men like women who are confident, and lingerie is one way to reinforce that. So go for it, experiment and enjoy yourself. Because when you feel beautiful, you radiate that. And that's the secret behind why men find women in lingerie sexy.
